Will My Postpartum Doula Charge Me a Deposit or a Retainer Fee to Hold My Spot?

This is such a practical—and important—question. The answer is: Yes, a professional postpartum doula will typically require a deposit or retainer fee to secure your spot. And this isn't about money. It's about commitment, respect, and honoring the sacred nature of this season. Let me explain. When I/we hold a spot for a family, We reserve time—often weeks or months in advance. We turn down other clients, plan our schedule around your estimated due date, and prepare our hearts to walk alongside you. That commitment goes both ways. A deposit (usually 20–30% of the total fee) is what makes that agreement official. It's not a barrier—it's a bridge. It shows that we're all in. At Doulagy, our process looks like this: We meet, talk, and connect—making sure we're a good fit. If you decide to move forward, I/we will send a simple contract. Once the deposit/retainer is paid, your spot is reserved.

The remaining balance is due at a set time—often at 36 weeks or upon service start. This isn't just business. It's about intentionality. I've had moms say, "I wasn't sure I could afford a doula," and that's why we offer payment plans when possible. Because I believe this support should be accessible. But the deposit/retainer? That's non-negotiable—not out of pride, but out of protection. It protects our time, my energy, and our ability to serve each family fully. And let's be honest—this season is too important to be an afterthought. When you pay your deposit,/retainer, you're not just securing a service. You're declaring: I value my healing. I value my family. I value the support I need to thrive. And that's worth honoring. So yes—expect a deposit/retainer. Ask about the policy. Read the contract. And when you make that first payment, know that you're taking a powerful step toward the postpartum care you deserve. Because you were never meant to do this alone